EQ, you and I have been friends for quite a while on the boards and I hate to see you so pissed off, but I do have to say you take things way to hard. You shouldnt be so sensitive that you get pissed so easy that you end up quitting over and over. You know damn well, youre going to regret jumping the gun and quitting over this. This emotional roller coaster that you put yourself on over the message boards is just wrong dude. You have big time highs where everything is going great and then WHAM someone says something and down you go.
trying to be reasonable and try to get you to understand becuase I think you'll have to be telling alot of people to fuck off if you dont see how it looks to others.
I hate to say it, but you do say you're leaving and then you come back (not that you shouldnt be back) over and over. You shouldnt let shit get to you so much and make you jump the gun. You know you regret leaving because you come back. Its obvious since you are responding that you were looking and probably would wish you had not quit the board again.
You really have to let shit slide and not do this any more. Sure someone might say something you dont like, take a shot at you, give you shit, but we all usually get some of that. Most of us dont jump and over-react to it. You make such a big production of it when it happens that everyone remembers it, and then when you do it again it people get a little less patient with it.
you can be mad at me if you want. you can stop coming to the board if you want (I dont think that you want that though), you can tell us to fuck off, but dude you have to get controll over the emotions to have fun and survive in a place like this. You need to take a deep breath and think if the immediate hurt, rejection, slam is really worth giving up somethin you really dont want to give up on. I would guess 99% of the time its nothing that is worth getting SOOOOO overly pissed about. Really think before you jump. Thats all. And marv is kind of right. It does seem to create too much drama. It might not seem like it when youre the one with the feelings hurting, but you have to try and get control over it.
<font color="#a62a2a" size="1">[ January 24, 2004 09:23 PM: Message edited by: chaserfan ]</font>
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